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Aren’t wives and wives-to-be supposed to know the answer to this? So here, let me share with you the answers I gathered from my friends…


-having a beautiful daughter

-surprise dates

-the key to our happiness is “sharing” and discovering new things together (sharing even if it is painful)

-accepting who I am as a person

-I am happy when I see her happy

-in a crowd of people you have to stand out, not just physically, just like the first time he laid eyes on you (how? by being true to herself, know your value)

-wife’s home cooked meals :)

-discovering and learning are part of the fun :)

-respect from his wife

-good sex

-good natured and submissive wife

Prior to finding the right mate, I believe we should “be” the right mate first. I totally agree with “knowing your value” and realizing your worth. Making him (your husband) happy is a result of you being happy with yourself first. =)


 


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viviene
03/24/2010 19:05

Here's more... i found this while I was surfing some bridal sites...

How to Be a Good Wife (According to a 1960's Textbook)

My darlings, after the wedding bells ring, how can you make sure to be a good wife? Take a page from this 1960's textbook (you're going to die!)...

These five marriage tips come straight from a 1960's home-economics textbook (for real!), and they were reprinted in Veiled Remarks, a great (new) book about wedding fun facts.

1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal -- on time. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. His boring day may need a lift.

3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dust cloth over the tables.

4. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him. Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soft, soothing and pleasant voice.

5. Listen to him: you may have a dozen things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the tie. Let him talk first.

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jamiethedreamer
06/18/2010 00:52

Hey! These make us happy, too:

-surprise dates

-the key to our happiness is “sharing” and discovering new things together

-accepting who I am as a person

-I am happy when I see him happy

-home cooked meals <<Coz I don't cook.

-discovering and learning are part of the fun :)

-respect from the husband<< MUCH!!

-good sex <<<(COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER!!!)

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jamiethedreamer
06/18/2010 00:53

So, I'll say it again:

- good sex.

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viviene
06/18/2010 00:56

hahaha.. jamie! so bold and honest! =p

i think bert would agree.. =p

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08/01/2011 22:32

Luck is a dividend of sweat. The more you sweat, the luckier you get.

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